While many women would be devastated to hear that their husbands have slept with other people, Honey Brooks has actively encouraged the act.
The 34-year-old revealed that her husband Hank, 36, has had sex with at least 80 other women in recent years.
Brooks said she and her husband often invite other women into their bedroom, and the act has “strengthened” their marriage tremendously.
The mother of two said they first tried to open up their marriage to other women three years ago and haven’t looked back.
“Our first time we invited another girl into the bedroom was Evie, who posed as a mean nanny,” Brooks told news.com.au.
“I was nervous because it was our first time, but I also felt excited because I’ve always liked the idea of being with another woman.
“It was sexy to share with my husband. I wondered if I would feel jealous, but as it turns out, I didn’t feel jealous at all,” she said.
“Since then, we have brought a number of other women into our bedroom.”
Brooks said there are some important ground rules the couple set before entering into this unique arrangement.
First, only women will be part of their bedroom entertainment, and they won’t invite men into the mix.
Hank is also never allowed to be alone with the women, where Brooks is always involved in dating.
“This is never done in isolation or as a secret,” she said.
“We decide as a team who we bring into our bedroom. If one of us has doubts or is not in the mood, we don’t continue.”
“We constantly listen and communicate with each other until she leaves. Even after the meeting, we discuss and touch base on how each other feels.”
“It is very important to respect each other’s feelings. The pleasure has to be 100 percent mutual, otherwise it’s not worth going on.”
“We never pressure ourselves to feel a certain way. We respect each other and always take it slow.”
Brooks and Hank first met at their local soccer club in 2009 and married a few years later.
While she said she and her husband have always been extremely close, these experiences have only strengthened their bond.
“It has certainly strengthened our marriage as we have become much closer, our trust, communication and bond is so strong,” she said.
“I feel like we’ve never been more open about what we want in the bedroom, there’s no shame, we can discuss anything and I think that’s powerful in itself.”
“The openness of our marriage has added excitement, spice and variety to our daily lives.”
A common misconception is that a person will develop feelings for a new person if they enter their love life.
However, Brooks said for them, that never happened and she believes it would never be a possibility because of the strength of their bond.
“Hank has never had an emotional connection with another woman,” she said.
“I don’t think he even thought about it, as we don’t see much of the other women.”
“I am completely confident in our relationship and have the utmost trust and loyalty.”
Although this aspect of their marriage works well for Brooks and Hank, the woman admits that this arrangement may not be for everyone.
“If you think you might want to try bringing another person into your relationship, I suggest you take it slow,” she said.
“Communicate every step of the way, respect each other’s boundaries, and if at any stage your partner feels uncomfortable, you should both stop.”
“Remember this is a ‘we’ thing, not an ‘I’ thing, so the fun has to work both ways.”
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