Dear Abby: I finally left my partner after years of glowing fighting – now I’m depressed

Dear Abby: I was meeting a man for the past two years. Most of the time, we enjoyed being together. However, sometimes our discussions would turn into glowing and harmful arguments.

He would not consider my view, ultimately closed me and would make me feel like the dispute was my fault.

After our most recent argument, I finally decided to end our relationship. I will admit that some of these arguments were driven by alcohol, which would bring an accusative tone despite my efforts to clarify any state or questions I ask.

When I think how I allowed the mija to be separated and beaten by this individual, she brings unclear feelings knowing the woman I am and may be. I also wonder how I allowed his behavior to become acceptable.

For the sake of my arrogance, I decided to break away. But I think I can do again what I have always done to return to his “good graces” – apologizing only for us to repeat the cycle.

I’m depressed and exhausted. I want to stay strong and not allow past memories for past good times to capture my decisions on this or in any future relationships. How? – Finally breaking up in Florida

Dear finally breaking: If alcohol changes the tone of your voice when you try to express yourself, start by doing something about your drinking.

Effective ways to combat length are standing busy with work and friends, volunteers or getting a new hobby.

Equally important, before involving yourself in a new romantic relationship, make sure the person you see treats you more respectfully than the last one.

Dear Abby: My mother, who is close to 85, has decided to dress like me.

Whenever she sees me, she tells me how “beautiful” I look and ask where I got the top I am going. The next time I see her, she is dressed in the same top. It’s been ridiculous.

I have a black beach cover that is made to look like it is crocheted or knitted. She went out and found her.

Believe me, a woman who is 85 years old and being overweight should not be wearing this seriously. What can I do for that? – ‘Gemini’ to the south

Dear ‘Twin’: Have you told your mother who bothers you? If you don’t have, you need.

You also need to offer shopping with him and help him find some “delightful” things that will satisfy them.

The action of the action, a clothing stylist told me an expression: “She is lined with lambs like lamb.” Your mother is deceived if she thinks wearing identical items with yours will make her look as youthful as you.

However, if you tell her, take her from me – she will be seriously offended. Lighten up. Let her continue in her bar because you can’t stop her and she is not hurting anyone.

Dear Abby was written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby on Dearabby.com or Yes Box 69440, Los Angeles, Ca 90069.