Dear Abby: My son and his wife will not talk to me because

Dear Abby: My girlfriend, whom I have known for many years, remarried her ex-husband a few years ago. I didn’t know when he was married the first time.

My husband and I do not like it. The last time we met for lunch, her husband showed my husband a weapon wearing in his pocket!

Abby, he is an elderly man with a vibration in his hands. She is e -mailed for all four meetings again, and we both are afraid to meet those since she is armed and has that vibration.

We are afraid that he can leave by chance and shoot one of us. I don’t know what to say. Any advice? – scared in Texas

Dear Dear Tales: Keep in mind that keeping a weapon is legal in Texas. Also, many weapons have security equipment so that they do not have accidentally lit.

There is a difference between dislikes someone and fear of associating with a gunman.

You don’t have to sacrifice your long friendship with this woman. If you do not want to see them as a couple, join them separately.

Dear Abby: My son and his wife have left to talk to my husband and me because I gave them Covid.

At their invitation, we made a trip with us to Hawaii. I start to feel sick on the plane and have tried positive the next day.

A couple of days later, my son became ill, and then a few days later, his wife took him. I told them how bad I was to infect them and ruin their vacation.

We have always had a closing relationship – frequent phone calls, visits, dinners, etc. – But for the last six weeks, nothing.

He told his brother that he was angry because I tried to “kill” them. I am at a loss of what to do, if anything. What would Abby do dear? – culprit in California

Dear guilty: What the dear would do Abby is to give your son some time to calm down and then reach and apologize again.

It must grow. You did not do anyone on purpose, and as easy as your son or bride could have been infected.

Dear Abby: I’ve been in love with a man for over 30 years. We never got married, but he calls me his wife. I am aware of his infidelity and I accept it-it is.

I am also involved with the father of my youngest child, who I have for about 15 years. I’m caught between the two and I can’t find the way out.

My child’s father provides financially, but emotionally man for 30 years is the one I want. My problem is, he would not engage. Please help. – torn in Washington

Dear Torn: If one of these two men wanted to marry, it would have happened years ago.

If you really want someone to build a sustainable future, look for someone who can give you more stability than these two “prices”.

Find a man who is available and ready. For now, you are simply treading water, which will not take you anymore than you are today.

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